Top 10 Best Habits of Highly Sexual Couples
We spoke with leading sex therapists to learn about the Top 10 Best Habits of Highly Sexual Couples. Every long-term relationship has peaks and valleys. If you and your partner are experiencing a dry spell—sex has become inconsistent or is no longer valued in the relationship—it may be time to restart.
#10. THEY HAVE MORE IN COMMON THAN SEX.
Sexual couples share more than just a passion for having a good time. “Sharing hobbies and interests—hiking, adventure, travel, and the like—aids in the maintenance of long-term sexual passion,” says Robert Weiss, LCSW, author of several sex-related books, including Always Turned On. “Couples who are highly sexual tend to share core values and belief systems. In general, they tend to agree on issues such as religion, politics, finance, education, and so on.”
#9. THEY’RE NOT OPPOSED TO QUICKIES.
Making time for sex may begin to turn the act of getting down and dirty with your partner into a chore. “Highly sexual couples take advantage of the’quickie,'” Richmond explains. “Sex does not have to last for 20 or 30 minutes. A quickie can be extremely hot and passionate, and it can feel fantastic.”
#8. THEY HAVE SEX TO REKINDLE CONNECTION.
Because relationships can become stale, having frequent sex can restore the sense of commitment and even the strong bond that the two of you have developed over time. “Highly sexual couples see sex as a way to simply connect, even if only for a brief moment,” Robinson says. “See what happens if you simply commit to having sex every day, no matter what, for a week. No excuses, just do it and watch how it improves your level of intimacy, self-esteem, and personal bond.”
#7. THEY ADMIT WHAT TURNS THEM ON.
No matter how many times you’ve had sex with your partner, it can be difficult to express what turns you on or what you’d like more of. “One thing that highly sexual couples do is be verbal and open during sex and physical intimacy. Tell your partner something personal, something intimate about how you’re feeling, well before sex “recommends John Robinson, NMD, a sexual health and hormone specialist. “It could be about anything at all. Simply demonstrate that you are available. This immediately initiates sexual communication.”
#6. THEY’RE EAGER TO HAVE FUN.
Couples who have been together for a long time may notice the sexual spark fading, especially if their bedroom time becomes a predictable routine. “Sexual couples have a good time. Sex does not have to be overly sensual “Richmond claims “Sex can be enjoyable and flirtatious. There may be some laughter. Allow yourself to be amused and entertained by the natural way of having sex.”
#5. THEY DON’T RELY ON BEING IN THE MOOD.
Couples who are frequently busy don’t rely on being “in the mood,” because that may be something they rarely feel, especially when children or a hectic work schedule are involved. “If you’re not in the mood,” Richmond says, “a little foreplay can get you there.” “This is especially true for women, for whom arousal frequently comes before desire.”
#4. THEY TRUST EACH OTHER.
Trust is a key characteristic shared by highly sexual couples that also contributes to successful marriage. Overstreet explains, “You can’t be a highly sexual couple and have trust issues.” “Trust and intimacy are inextricably linked, and one cannot exist without the other. Because these couples have resolved any trust issues, this is one less barrier to their intimacy.”
#3. THEY’RE COMFORTABLE IN THEIR SKIN.
Having more sex can be as simple as loving yourself, completely, before making love to someone else. “Those who are at ease with their bodies aren’t concerned with how their bodies look, feel, or smell to one another,” says Overstreet. “They are at ease with one another, which allows them to take advantage of every sexual opportunity.”
#2. THEY AREN’T ALWAYS SEXUALLY SELFISH.
While it’s easy to get caught up in the desire to feel good, sex is more likely to occur when both parties aren’t so self-centered. “Highly sexual couples are not selfish. It isn’t just about one person or the other.” “These couples are attentive to each other’s needs, particularly when it comes to sex. They are sensitive to each other’s sexual arousal and deliver.”
#1. THEY EMBRACE IMPERFECTION.
Life, like sex, is not without flaws. “Couples who have a lot of sex do not seek the ideal situation, such as going on vacation when your children are not present. Work stress, family stress, and home stress of various kinds all play a role in daily life “Holly Richmond, Ph.D., a licenced sex therapist and marriage and family therapist, agrees. “Sexy couples take advantage of less-than-ideal circumstances.”
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